Change How You Think and Feel About Your Body

Change How You Think and Feel About Your Body

Body shame and hatred is one of the most common issues faced by mainly females, but also males, in today’s world.

The connection between body and self has been significantly blurred.

Many males and females identify their own self-worth and self-image solely on their looks and body.

Society is teaching beliefs that:

  • The female body needs to be slim, tall, tanned and ‘beautiful’, and
  • The male body needs to be muscular, tall and tanned.

Without these attributes, society tells you that you do not deserve and cannot be:

  • Happy;
  • Healthy, or
  • Successful

This has a very dangerous impact on not only the psyche, but also on health, leading to long-term effects and potentially death, from such things as:

  • Anorexia;
  • Bulimia;
  • Anxiety;
  • Depression;
  • Addiction;
  • Cosmetic Surgery;
  • Plastic Surgery, and
  • Even Suicide.

The culture of self-image and body-image is only getting more ingrained.

We are seeing more and more boys with Eating Disorders and Body Dissatisfaction more than ever.

We are seeing children as young as 5 years of age with Eating Disorders and Body Dissatisfaction.

The good news . . . 

Body-image, body shame and body hatred are not fixed entities and can be changed.

Throughout life stages, the body changes, and you need to change and become flexible with it.

Just as you are not perfect, neither is your body, or will it ever be (even with surgery)!

To develop a positive body-image focus on the following things:

Three (3) Tips to Improving Letting Go of Body Shame and Improving Your Body Image

Tip #1 – Change How You Think About Your Body and Yourself

ACCEPT THE BODY YOU WERE BORN WITH!

You have the power to mould or shape it, so it feels healthy, strong, and flexible.

Trying to make your body look like someone else’s or conform to society’s concept is unachievable.

What is achievable is knowing that, you have the control and power over your own body as well as the power to accept and love yourself unconditionally. 

 

Tip #2 – Change How You Feel About Your Body and Yourself

Everyone is unique!

There is not another human being on the planet like you.

If you are unique then why are you conforming to the negative messages provided by everyone else?

It is time for you to decide about your own body-image.

Ask yourself:

If I did not know about any expectations from society about body size, shape, weight etc., what would I really think about my body?

Are my thoughts ONLY the product of societal expectations?

Be your own best friend . . .

Every time you say something critical or judgmental, ask yourself if you would say this to your friends.

If the answer is no, then you are being too harsh, and it helps you to change your response to yourself.

 

Tip #3 – Let Go of Body Shame and Hate Talk and Praise Your Body and Yourself 

I am so fat, ugly and disgusting

I am so embarrassed and ashamed by you

I can’t stand looking at myself

How did I even get here?

Do you say some of these things to yourself and your body when you look in the mirror?

If so, you need to change what you say to your body and yourself.

Here are a few things you can say to yourself when you find negative self-talk creeping in about your body and yourself:

  • My body is my home and I will not tear it down.
  • Hating my body does not change my body.
  • Health is not just about what I’m eating or what I look like. It is also about what I am thinking and saying to myself.
  • I will stop rejecting my body and embrace my body.
  • I accept and love myself for who I am now in this moment.

A body size, shape or weight will never make you happy or successful, if you are not happy within yourself and value who you are. 

People who have a healthy body-image have healthy self-esteem and self-acceptance.

When you are free from negative body-image you have more freedom to spend time on things you enjoy.

By being the best version of yourself you will find how to be happy and your true purpose and meaning in life.

If you struggle with poor body-image, self-esteem or self-acceptance, contact Fit Minds & Bodies Clinic today.

At Fit Minds & Bodies Clinic we can help you break free from negative thinking that maintains your poor body image and comparisons.

We will help you become the best version of yourself and build a life filled with satisfaction, balance, health and happiness.